Speak Up If You Are Hurt, Don’t Die In Silence’ — Socialite, Pretty Mike Urges Men

Nigerian socialite and nightclub owner, Pretty Mike has urged his fellow men to open up and share their relationship struggles and stories when they are hurt and don’t die in silence.

In a long write-up he made on his Instagram page, Pretty Mike pointed to the fact that men also do go through emotional torture, abuse and they are cheated on in their relationships yet society d on’t expect them to talk about it.

According to him, ladies gain sympathy when they share their stories but on the contrary, when men share their experiences, they are subjected to mockery and the fact that they don’t speak does not mean they don’t get hurt.

He wrote;

Na wa ooh…. This our society where a man can’t express his hurt without being tagged a talkative or an immature man,how do u expect to know how many of us that have been hurt,abused and cheated on and yet stayed in a relationship ? Yes I’ve seen a couple of instances where the woman cheats and the Guy stays….

The fact that our ego, as men wouldn’t let us come out and cry about our women cheating on us doesn’t mean it never happened……. 

Often time,the ladies gain sympathy when Dey share their stories with their friends, on the other hand, if a man shares such stories with his male friends he gains Mockery😢….. 

Lastly, it’s easier for women to go online and cry foul and the response would always be in their favor; the usual “men are scum” phrase would surface, but if a man ever comes out, world people will say “He talks too much😳, Abeg alot of guys are currently dying in silence……

Oga Instagram community is here, feel free to express ur pain and pour out ur anger… You can’t be forming Lagos big boy, working super hard to provide for ur family and Dey will still be Fu*cking madam up and down and u can’t say anything because people will laugh u, if u allow depression kill u, Dey will cont the Fu*king in ur Lekki home and send ur kids to go and stay with relatives 🧐 #NoAirFlow